SURE, SIGNS SHOWING THAT YOU ARE A HENPECKED HUSBAND-VOICELESS AND NEGLECTED

Marriage is the most beautiful relationship in anybody’s life. But what can be done if it turns abusive? Who says that only men are dominant in a marriage? Even a wife also dominates his man. Yes, men who are managed by their wives fall in the category of henpecked husbands. Well, it is nearly like an abusive relationship.

When husbands are influenced or intimated, they tend to give in to the supremacy of the spouse. Well, if a person is happy in such a relationship then there isn't any problem but if one is feeling suppressed or suffocated then there is nothing wrong in having a peaceful and meaningful discussion about the same with your wife.

In this article, Delhi’s top marriage counselor and relationship expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo tell about the sure, signs showing that you are a henpecked husband-voiceless and neglected.

You Always Nod Your Head In A Meek Yes

You have no right to voice your view. You are forced to say yes whatever your wife says even when your heart and mind stop you. You know that you will be thwarted through her tongue if you disagree with her. So, you meekly agree to all her views. You think that it is better to nod your head in affirmative rather than listening to abusive words. This is the topmost sign of a henpecked husband.

You Never Want To Return Home From Your Office

You do not feel like going to your home after your office hours. Your mind depicts the dreadful scenario at your home. Your wife acts as a master and you as a helpless slave. You completely cringe inside due to frustration. You delay or fluster on the way instead of raring to reach your home. You are worried about your wife’s terrible mood swings.

Your Wife Is The Sole Decision Maker

Your wife behaves like the master of the family. She makes and takes all the decisions and you are supposed to say yes. Your wife is the one who talks and you listen. She orders and you follow. You have no say in the family matters.

You Are Abused Repeatedly

You are being abused by your wife physically and mentally. She says you are pathetic. Your wife insults you by comparing you with relatives, friends, and colleagues. She insults you in front of your relatives and friends. You are afraid not the contradict with her because of her terrible nature.

You Have To Measure Your Words And Tone

You have to think multiple times before you say anything to your wife. You feel restrained. As a henpecked husband, you appear normal even when you are full of anger towards your wife. Your opinions do not matter in your house.

Your Money Is Not Yours

The moment you get your salary you have to give it to your wife. It is your wife who decides what should be done with that money. You cannot fulfill any of your personal desires.

You Feel Unhappy All The Time

You are not happy at your home and feel suppressed by the imposing behavior of your wife. You rarely smile and also fakes it. You talk quite less and never look to have fun.