Sometimes bad phase in a
relationship becomes so strained that intellectual possibilities to overcome
bad situations by the couple get hijacked with pain, feeling of betrayal and
confusion. Generally, such a condition itself snowballs into end of a relationship.
If you know someone going through such unfortunate situation, then you can
share with them the following tips by Delhi’s eminent Relationship Counsellor,
Shivani Misri Sadhoo.
1. First, couple should ask
themselves, if they are destroying themselves, hurting their partner and their
relationship, based on anger and strong emotions? If yes, then slow down and
evaluate. Avoid confronting your partner until you’re calm and can carefully
weigh your bad relationship phase.
2. Secondly, couple should avoid
assumptions like their current state of unhappiness is solely the fault of
the relationship; there could be other issues too, like bad financial
situation, unnecessary attraction towards a colleague, frustration in career
etc. Remember, there is no intelligence to mix up everything or to destroy good
things because you have a bad or a thoughtless experience.
3. Instead of just secretly
wishing for a change, couple could should prepare themselves to do open and
effective communication than cutting off or keeping silent. Communicating
transparently with partner generally kick-starts a healthier relationship; in
the least, it will contribute to a deeper understanding of what’s really
causing the rift in the relationship.
4. Put a sincere effort to resolve
the situation, if you fail then don’t wait for fate but meet a counsellor, who
can help you come out of this situation.
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