This Diwali when you attend the party, make sure that it’s not only your dress but your personality to make an impression in the minds of your family, friends, neighbours and colleagues. Psychologist and Marriage Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo, shares some important personality tips of making an effective impression in a party.
· Be yourself Personality of every individual is unique and varies from person to person. A lot of times people tend to copy the personality and behaviour of famous people or of the people who inspired or impressed them in the past.
Remember you cannot acquire a personality; you can only develop the personality that you already have. For example, if you are a short tempered person you can control that over time, but you cannot change and become a very calm person, at least not overnight . So do not try to acquire a fake personality. Try to develop the personality that you already have. Brush up the skills and make your personality more pleasing. This will help you to develop your personality better and also ensure that people appreciate your personality.
· Eye contact shows respect. To make a good first impression, maintain a relaxed posture and warm, engaging eye contact. By meeting someone's eyes, you're showing that your mind is mentally present too. To soften your gaze, move your eyes lightly around the person's face.
· To break the ice comment on details about the environment around you, remember your purpose is simply to signal your willingness to talk, not to find a stranger to impress and make your followers by imposing your likings and thoughts on them.
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