In today’s fast and complex social situation, the most important quality that every woman must possess is confidence. Confident women are strong and independent and their self-worth gives them the ability to handle every challenging situation effectively, especially the romantic ones, in ways that women who lack confidence just can’t.
In other words, confidence lets women express their likes and dislikes effectively, especially in a relationship. Confidence makes them fearless and strong to move on from something that doesn’t meet their personal standards. In other words, confident women don’t sell themselves short and aren't afraid not only to put themselves first but also to love themselves first.
Today Delhi’s eminent relationship expert and marriage counselor, Shivani Misri Sadhoo reveals how confident women maintain their relationships differently.
She says “yes” only when she means it
A lot of Indian women have a tendency to say yes for everything that their partner/husband/ in-laws say or ask because she doesn’t want to make anyone unhappy or to disappoint anyone. However, in doing so, she ends up mostly doing things for others and not for herself. Such an attitude can easily be interpreted as a sign of weakness and poor self-worth after if a person doesn’t worth oneself then how the world can do so.
‘No’ is a difficult word for a lot of people to say. That’s because it is direct and definitive. A ‘no’ is a closure of a conversation and is a powerful word that can hurt when used incorrectly. A confident woman knows that saying ‘no’ to others often means she is saying ‘yes’ to herself.
She uses positive words
A confident woman knows the value of using positive words in conversations and she knows how to use them. After all, people are far more likely to respond to positive words than negative ones.
Thus a confident woman uses positive words in her conversations to build herself and others up. She doesn’t have to put other people down in order for her to feel good about herself. A conversation with a confident woman will leave you feeling inspired.
She prioritizes her relationships but doesn’t get obsessed with it
Confident woman prioritizes her relationship and does everything within her reach to make the relationship successful – but not at the cost of lowering her self-worth or lowering the standards. She understands that the relationship is important but she doesn’t make it her ENTIRE life.
She is not dependent on other’s judgments
Confident women don’t waste their time on negativity. Especially they don’t get affected by other’s criticisms and judgments because of her pride, satisfaction, and happiness, drives from deep within the self.
Never forget confidence building is an ongoing process and part of this discipline comes from an ability to challenge negative thoughts (limiting beliefs) that are often centered on what we think others feel about us. Confident people don’t compare themselves to others.
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