It would be quite congenial for many woman folks that being in a
relationship may be quite a tricky stuff, that too when you are trying to
decide whether you want to spend the rest of your life with a man for the rest
of your life.
Most people say you will come to know “without a single grain of doubt”
when the right man comes or crosses path with you, but sometimes it’s not that
easy as it appears in these sayings.
The reason being it is not that easy to determine whether someone who
crosses your path could actually be your life partner and often many women are
confused as to what they want from a relationship, or what they truly seek in
her “ideal man”.
And it won’t be wrong to say that until this point, most women might
have been dating a wrong man and are still would be on the hunt for what might
work for them. That cloudy their mind becomes the more difficult it becomes for
them to see the signs when in life a real gem of men comes to their ways.
Still, there is one essential quality that often woman seeks in a given
relationship is respect. If he doesn’t respect you, then probably he doesn’t
deserve your presence in his life.
It is easy to see these signs which tell you that he respects you and
your self-being.
In this article, Delhi's eminent marriage counselor and relationship expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo talk about 6 things a man does in a relationship
if he truly respects you.
Paying Attention To You
In this age of smartphones and virtual life thanks to social media, it
can be hard to get and hold onto someone’s attention for long.
If someone keeps glued to their smartphones, and in talks with you they
show that anything on the internet or virtual life is more interesting than you
and your life then. Ouch!. That does hurt. But often it can happen to anyone.
However, when a man is truly interested in the presence of his charming
woman, he’ll put his smartphone flipped and seeks to give you all of his
attention and time.
He’ll hear you when you speak, and he’ll be actually able to
successfully carry on a pleasant conversation with you because he would have
been listening coherently to you. If he seems often scrolling through Facebook
or any other social media app, catching up on it as to what his friends are up
to, he truly doesn’t respect you or respects your presence in front of him.
Being Supportive When You Need Him The Most.
Thanks to Modern times, women are stronger than ever and have been
living an independent life based on their own terms. But that doesn’t entirely
mean that they don’t want to be in a “relationship” but also that also doesn’t
mean that they don’t need someone’s shoulder to cry on occasions when it could
be emotionally challenging for them.
“A Strong woman requires a strong man”-a man who should be by their
side, and in today’s society, it can be harder to find someone who will be
standing by your side when things are going tough.
You’ll know that your man is a special one and respects you more than
anything when he picks up his phone when you call and gives you your “space”
when it is appropriate or needed the most.
Being supportive doesn’t mean physical forms such as hand-holding: its
when sometimes a woman needs their own space, it’s a characteristic of being a
nobleman which lets him know when it is time to let you have it.
When He Puts You First
Often in situations wherein there is a priority to be selected, he lets
you know that he cares and puts you first in his life as he will put your needs
ahead of his own set of priorities.
It could be something as simple as driving you and fro in office hours,
when you get a flat tire or in distress, and that too, despite making himself
late in the process.
He’s ready to give it all up to make you happy and content, and this is
when you may truly relish this fact that got yourself a real man.
Being Kind
Good men are not selective at being kind to you or any other.
If you are still on the fence of observing a man which you could easily
lookup as the chosen one, watch his way of treating other people and his
gestures while discussing others.
For a long, women have tried to know that she has henpecked a right man
on the way, he treats his mother, but little attention on how he is behaving
with his co-workers or others, it is how whether he behaves with waiting for a
local restaurant or how he interacts with strangers in new places.
Kind-hearted men see people and acknowledge people's existence; they
don’t just glaze over fellow being in passing. If he can such casually do this
with other people, he is more likely to do it to you sooner or later.
Being Honest
A man respecting you will tend to tell you the truth or speak from his
heart, even if it is hard for them to do so. There’s a huge difference being a
jerk and being candidly speaking his heart out.
Sometimes it’s necessary to have hard conversations in relationships,
and if he respects you then there won’t be dishonestly on his part to speak his
heart out with you.
If he doesn’t do that, you can easily him in a beer shop sharing it with
his close pals and would be trying to avoid a faceoff with you.
A real man in a relationship will step up even when it might be not easy
for them to do the honest talk because to him it's critical in your
relationship to deal with it.
Gratitude Is His Attitude Towards You
Its when a man is relaxed in his skin and true to his self, he won’t try
a single bit on trying to alter you in a relationship. Common you are not
someone’s project to be molded in an idle structure which he might thing is
idly a woman should be.
He’ll not only appreciate you for your uniqueness but also feels
gratitude to cherish your awesomeness presence in his life, also he will
encourage you each turn in decisions help and support you to select what might
be right for you.
Your own personality of being a strong & independent woman shouldn’t
unacceptable and ungrateful to him.
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