Procrastination can be a major problem for some people at their home,
workplace, and even at schools or universities. Psychologists long have been
probing the reasons behind procrastination to better understand this phenomenon
further and assist people in overcoming this.
Studies have findings that reveal the
fact while it has short-term benefits to procrastination, but this often leads
to enduring excessive stress and additional ailment. The conclusion is that
procrastination is a lower self-esteem an act that tends to create more
problems if it is not initially resolved.
In this article, Delhi's eminent Psychologist Shivani Misri Sadhoo talks about the best ways to overcome
procrastination.
Recognizing How One Procrastinate
It may take several forms. Often one
may not even realize that they are procrastinating. Examine one’s daily
practices in determining how one is procrastinating in order to put a stop to
these practices.
The most common way behind
procrastinating is through shifting focus from the main task to another task the
reason being that one simply doesn’t want to finish the one task before another
one. There might be other reasons too like one may also be procrastinating
when one spends a lot of time on social media platforms filling one's time with
insignificant activities, or even waiting to be in the right set of mood or
waiting for conditions as per one's mood to tackle a task.
Recognizing Why One Procrastinate
One must recognize the fact that why
one is procrastinating so that one can change their mindset. Why one is
procrastinating could be a critical element in determining more on the reason
for how one is procrastinating.
Some of the common reasons for
procrastinating is not enjoying the task at hand, being disorderly, or being
flabbergasted by the size and impact of the task, or fearful of getting
success. Often being a perfectionist may be the main reason for
procrastination, including poor decision-making ability too.
Studies have revealed the findings that
the primary causes behind procrastination may not be due to the fact that
they were lazy or disobedient, instead the reason being that the vast majority
of procrastinators do it so because of being hostile to an assigned the task,
delaying the task, being impulsive, or due to lack of motivation and lack of
discipline.
Forgiving Oneself
When one thinks of stopping
procrastinating, one must have to forgive the self for procrastinating that
they have done in their past. Most importantly one should admit this fact
that one has been procrastinating, then gradually start self-forgiving and look
to move forward and progress further in self-development.
While it can be quite tough to forgive
one for procrastinating even if one has to put off something really vital that
has caused them greater problems to handle and handle stress. Though, it is
important to be forgiving to oneself. And If one doesn’t do it, it is
likely to make one continue procrastinating due to being in a state of
self-defeat and disappointments.
Committing Oneself To The Task
Try to commit yourself to get the task
completed first. This seems like a simple way from stop procrastinating, still
sometimes committing oneself to an assigned task that one has been long
avoiding which can be pretty hard. But one must accept this fact that you have
the task that has to accomplished, and do simple yet effective steps to get it
finished.
When one commits self to get the tasks
accomplished that one has been long avoiding, then one realizes that they can
no longer procrastinate. And, by doing this, one is putting self in a new
mindset that might help on being more productive.
Rewarding Self
Simply putting it is important to
self-reward for a job or task well accomplished, and it is the greatest and
simplest way to self-motivate to get difficult tasks completed. These rewards
don't have to be enormous. For example, if someone has long
wanting to see a specific movie or buy something, decide that when the
assigned job is completed it becomes a form of self-award that the movie can be
watched and gift bought.
One may use smaller rewards. For
instance, you could tell self that if the task is completed, one will spend 60
minutes playing one’s desired game.
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