SURE SIGNS IT’S TIME TO WALK AWAY AND END YOUR RELATIONSHIP

The relationship is considered to be one of the greatest bliss gifted to us by god. But in most of the relationship phases come which has lots of ups and downs. Sometimes you find that you and your spouse are in complete harmonic bliss and sometimes you find that you are frustrated and irritated with each other. In a relationship, everyone has their own experiences which are a long series of checks and balance.

During the starting phase of your relationship, it can be difficult to read the signs of your spouse which show that your better half is true and “the one” for you. A successful relationship has to face a lot of challenges & also sometimes have to be questioned whether or not the decision to stay together is right or not. Actually, we don’t know what is written in the future, so one can’t be sure about the result of an ongoing relationship and until one reach till the end, one cannot discover whether it is the end or time to go for a fresh start.

In relationship. how do you know that it’s the end of relations? What are the reactions of couples when they realize to part away? When does the couple realize that their love is not enough to sustain their relationship?

In this article, Delhi's top marriage counselor and relationship expert Shivani Misri Sadhoo talks about sure signs it's time to walk away and end your relationship.

One May Prefer To Walk Extra Miles Towards Their Relationship

A relationship works smoothly when two people put equal efforts but when you start feeling that you are putting extra efforts and your spouse doesn’t give anything in the relationship then it’s a time to re-evaluate.

Does Not Appreciate You

When you do something special for your spouse and still, they don’t pay any kind of attention towards you or appreciate like they always do and are kind of thankless to you. Then you start feeling underappreciated and this will eventually, cause tension in the relationship.

Lies Found In The Relationship

Honesty is the pillar of any relationship and when you start finding lies during your conversation then the relationship becomes unhealthy. Most of the time, when lies are caught and you leave it or to your spouse just to maintain the relations or due to the child. But at some point in time, you start losing your patience and start thinking about why I am in this relationship if there is no trust between us.

Unhealthy Argument 

Most of the couple does argue in their relationship from time to time. The argument is necessary but it depends upon the quality of the argument. If the argument with your spouse is going in a positive way then it is healthy kind of argument and which is often good for your relationship but if it's in the negative direction then it's unhealthy for your relationship. When argument starts frequently, it means both of you are not agreeing on many issues and arguments continue till you are not finding a solution to it or do compromise on it but in the end, nothing gets solved. During the arguments, if you find that arguments lean towards the unhealthy side more often than the other healthier one, then it means your spouse does not respect you or care about your feelings.

Making Excuses

When you are honest in the relationship then it never requires an explanation or excuse and if your spouse seems to be always ready with excuses or explanation about unwanted things or starts defending each act of there, then it might be the time for separation. Excuses show signs of lying, a sign which shows you are doing something fictitious or they do not want to put efforts in your relationship with them.

Your Life Revolves Around Your Spouse But Their Round Others

A relationship requires a mutual understanding of two people. All relationships require compromises, especially regarding major lifestyle decisions such as where you live, how you spend holidays, or where each of you works. However, if all the compromising leans in favor of your spouse then something is just not right. If your spouse controls everything or most decisions of your life, then, it could be a sign that they are controlling or manipulating your relationship. If all the big decisions seem to lean in their favor, it might be time to consider your relationship, especially if these decisions don’t make you happy and still, you have to obey them.

Doesn't Spend Quality Time Together

Spending quality time together allows relationships to grow and flourish. For this, you need to put some time and efforts. After time passes, excitement at the time of starting of the relationship begins to fade away, setting aside quality time together requires more of a conscious effort especially when you first began dating. This can be extremely true for couples who live together because when you see the person on a daily basis, it becomes easier to forget to set aside quality time. If you and your spouse don’t spend quality time together, then it may be a sign that things aren’t headed towards a good direction, especially if your spouse is resistant to taking out time.