Signs You Have An Obsessive Lover

What would your lover do for love? Some may cross seas to meet the lover. A few could even migrate cities and switch careers to be with the person he/she is in love with. Someone even stalks the lover and do the unimaginable to be with her.

A lot of people blame love for the crazy things it makes people do but no, love is never to be blamed because every person reacts to emotions differently. Some movies depict an obsessive lover becomes a random stalker or killer just to be with the person he/she loves. This may not be entirely true but real life does have frightening moments. Dating an obsessive lover can be very risky.

Delhi’s Top Psychologist, Relationship Expert and Marriage Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo shares signs you have an obsessive lover.

Emotionally Blackmails Or Threatens

You must think to be with a person who emotionally blackmails or even threatens you to be with you because the person knows how he can use your love as a tool to manipulate you. In a healthy relationship, no partner ever be forced to feel or witness such a bizarre and toxic display of love.

Becomes Stalker

Trust is the foundation of any relationship. But there are certain people who have this tendency of keeping track of their lover's routine and whereabouts. And due to social media, stalking a person is very easy as keeping track of things in your own home. The stalking behavior of your lover may begin with something simple like tracking your live location for your safety to something as intense as reaching your friend's party without prior notice and invitation-only because he wants to be with you. Remember, this toxic mannerism of your lover must not be confused with concern and love.

Too Clingy

Many relationships have a picture-perfect starting where the lovers want to share the entire detail of their daily life with each other. Also, there are exceptions where this care to know about each other is swapped with overdependency. Does your partner mostly demand your attention for every minor thing? Does he/she want both should spend every time together? Basically, your partner wants your world to revolve around them. Such clingy conduct should be considered a red flag.

Wants To Know Passwords

Have you ever caught your partner reading you and your chats? Does your lover demand that you must share all your passwords with him/her? This is a sign that you are dating an overtly insecure person and insecurity can make people into obsessive lovers.

Excessive Jealous

Jealousy and obsess person goes hand in hand. Take it as a warning sign if your partner gets offended or becomes jealous of trivial things like someone compliments you or you spending an evening with your friends. Jealousy and insecurity get heightened when a person starts behaving suspiciously to satisfy his or her whims. It is best to avoid such people.

No Personal Space

1 major trait of an obsessive person is that they do not have a life of their own. It is never joyful to have someone breathing down your neck.  It can be also very intimidating when your lover spends excessive time with you leaving you with no scope to socialize with anyone else, including your friends and family. A person who has no respect for your private space should have no place in your life at all.