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Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo shares how over optmisim Ruins Relationship with Hindustan Times

Is ‘overoptimism’ ruining your relationship? Too much of a good thing can be a bad thing. And more so when you’re dealing with a partner, who is an ‘enthu-cutlet’ or overly optimistic. From having unrealistic expectations to making unreal assumptions, relationship experts Dr Anil Sethi and Shivani Sadhoo explain how ‘too much sunshine’ is can actually be harmful in your relationship. Communication gap:

Overly optimistic partners avoid dealing with arguments, as they don’t want to deal with negativity. Experts say, to solve fights, one needs to confront. If not dealt with the problems, it keeps piling up, affecting the relationship.

Expectations: Too much of positivity can lead into a false sense of security. An overoptimistic partner often ends up miscalculating the gravity of situation. This leads to resentment as expectations of a partner are not meant.

Overconfidence: An optimistic partner assumes that things will go according to their plan and nothing can go wrong. They don’t kee…

How and When to Talk About Money in a New Relationship?

A bit of friction on various issues in a relationship can keep the spark alive between couples but when it comes to the matter of finances. It's best that things are handled with great care and caution suggests Delhi’s eminent relationship counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo. But talking about money is not easy, especially in the early stages of the relationship, when couples don’t want to do anything wrong to put the mood off of their partner and to risk their growing bonding. So the question is how and when to talk about money in a new relationship? Today counselor Shivani shares some important advice on talking about money matters in a relationship. Begin the conversation early Generally, couples don’t prefer to share too much information on their second or third date, but it’s still important to start the conversation early. Counselor Shivani suggests that one can take advantage of the early part of their relationship to begin talking about money. It’s the time when they both are ha…

Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo in Conversation with Men's Health Magazine Share tips for Inviting a Woman for the first Time

You met this girl, things clicked between you two and now you’re planning to invite her to your place. So far so good. Oh, wait… is the thought of her snooping around the place, and perhaps judging your lifestyle and building a perception of you making you nervous?

There’s no need to worry because we say, it’s okay to feel anxious when inviting a lady over for the first time. After all, it’s your private space and you don’t want her to form an unfavorable opinion about you and your living habits. To help you feel more comfortable and prepared, Delhi-based relationship counselor Shivani Sadhoo has shared a list of five essentials that could help you with your bachelor pad makeover in no time.