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Signs That Person May Not Be Ready For A Real Relationship

The truth is everyone has some expectations from their relationship, especially if it’s a romantic one. Yet a lot of romantic relationships end leaving the person devastated, confused and hurt. In some cases, a person misses identifying if the person is right for them and even though the person is right, they distance themselves from them, in confusion. Today Relationship Expert and Marriage Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo shares signs that could mean the other person doesn’t want more out of a relationship than what is casual. Such clarity helps us avoid disappointments at the end.
1.  If the person is not progressive about the relationship
A relationship is like a plant that needs dedication and care to grow into a wonderful tree. Hence if you see your relationship is not progressive or developmental irrespective or your efforts at the same time your partner is not willing to put energy to excel your relationship into maturity, then it is obvious the person is not ready for something …

Secrets of Lifelong Marital Bond - By Marriage Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo

You’ve seen your grandparents and perhaps your parents and uncles who have turned into adorable elderly couples and even after three to four decades of their married life, they feel happy, comfortable and content when they hold each other’s hand. It seems that they’ve spent their entire life in synchronization.
In today’s era of self-priorities, self-goals and competitive career growth conditions, marital harmony seems more a challenging goal in our generation (who were born in the last 3-4 decade) than ever. We don’t realize that our grandparents and parents, perhaps have faced more uncertainty in their lives and experienced less convenience than today. Couples two generations back have gone through- countries partition, economic poverty, scarcity of basic food like milk, feminine hygiene stuff much more and still most of them stayed together, never seems to have a problem in their marital life.
Today Marriage Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo shares some of the secrets that she has w…

What Do Happy People Do Differently In Their Life?

As like Dalai Lama has said, “Happiness is not something readymade. It comes from your own actions.” True happiness is not dependent on luck, favorable circumstances, money, etc. The absence of these factors may cause dissatisfaction but getting them is not an answer to true happiness, rather the pursuit of earning money, success, assets, luxury etc. is a never ending process. More we get, more we want more and it never ends.  
Psychological science identifies true happiness depends on the mindset and attitude of a person. Happy people do certain things that improve their ability to find happiness. Today Relationship and Marriage Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo share those factors that can help you find real happiness.
Find balance in their lives.
People who are happy are always content with what they have and they don’t waste a whole lot of time worrying and stressing over things they don’t have. Unhappy people do the opposite: they spend too much time thinking about what they don’t hav…

How To Be Closer And Less Lonely in Relationships?

Loneliness is not just about physical proximity, it’s about emotional connection. You may have sex, but you don’t have love. You may talk, but you don’t communicate. You live together, but you don’t share life.
Many of us never expect to be lonely in a marriage, hoping that our spouse will be the lifelong companion who saves us from loneliness. Over time, however, couples can gradually disconnect from one another and find themselves feeling isolated and withdrawn. Today Delhi’s eminent Marriage Counsellor Shivani Misri Sadhoo first explains what cause distancing and loneliness in marriage and how to overcome;
First, understand what are most common causes that distance couples and make them lonely in their relationship
· You may feel lonely in spite of your partner if your heart is closed as you are protecting yourself from hurt, anger or withdrawal. You cannot connect when you are closed and protected. · You may feel lonely if your partner when your partner is closed and angry or withdraw…

What is A Grief Cycle and How To Cope With Grief In Life

If you have had a loss and are struggling with grief, there is hope... we can help ease the pain
The death of your loved one might inspire you to evaluate your own feelings of mortality. Throughout each stage, a common thread of hope emerges: As long as there is life, there is hope. As long as there is hope, there is life. Many people do not experience the stages in the order listed below, which is okay. The key to understanding the stages is not to feel like you must go through every one of them, in precise order. Instead, it’s more helpful to look at them as guides in the grieving process — it helps you understand and put into context where you are.
We must keep in mind — all people grieve differently. Some people will wear their emotions on their sleeve and be outwardly emotional. Others will experience their grief more internally, and may not cry. You must try and not judge how a person experiences their grief, as each person will experience …

Before Starting a New Relationship – You Must Check these

The relationship is a tricky aspect of one's life and if things go wrong, it can devastate us and if a relationship is right, it can bless us with a wonderful life partner.   
As easy as it is to shrug it off and blame it on the other person, there are certain things everyone needs to accomplish in their own life before they can be a good partner. If you want your next relationship to be successful, check the below list, suggested by Delhi's eminent Marriage Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo, before deciding your another date.
1. Get involved for the right reasons
One of the simplest questions to ask yourself is why you want a relationship in the first place? Is it because you really like this person, or are you trying to distract yourself from other problems?
Sometimes people, especially in young age, people enter into a relationship for all the wrong reasons, like starting a new relationship only because all of your friends are dating someone and being with someone just makes you f…

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Eminent Counselor Shivani Misri Sadhoo Shares her expert view on the December issue of MiceTalk